Tips for a Vegetarian Wedding
Friday, October 13th, 2006Last weekend, my wife and I got married. It was a wonderful day that went off without a hitch - vegetarian menu for the reception notwithstanding. We were a bit concerned about a negative reaction from our omnivorous family members, especially after a conversation with my wife’s grandfather before the wedding. We had stopped by to visit, and as we chatted about the weather, he brought up a spaghetti dinner that they had eaten not too long before.
”So the waitress came by with some sausages, and I said, ‘Well, where’s the meat?’ She told me that those sausages were all they had prepared. You know what I told her? I said, “Then you should go out of business.’”
Fortunately, our menu didn’t cause any friction. So, if you are planning a vegetarian wedding but don’t want to cause an uproar with your family - here is how it worked for us.
We served a generally italian menu, starting off with a few appetizers (brie/rasberry cups and breadcrumb stuffed mushrooms). The main course was eggplant parmesan - a hearty dish - accompanied by a pasta bar with options of marinara, pesto, and alfredo. We also served roasted vegetables, a salad, and dinner rolls. We finished the meal with overflowing trays of cookies and of course, wedding cake!
I think that many non-vegetarians assume that a “vegetarian” meal consists of nothing more than tofu wrapped in lettuce, or a tray of raw vegetables. By going with a hearty meal like eggplant - which has a meaty texture - and offering a number of options for our guests, everyone was able to find something that fit their palate.
If you have had a vegetarian wedding or are planning one, please share your experiences!

